3.6.10

How to complain less...

從email newsletter得來的智慧...

complainless: (adj.) 1. to be free of complaints 2. a pleasure to be around


Remember... Your words move others. Your words move you. Let yours send everyone in the right direction. Be the spark.




To be ComplainLess...


Be aware. Recognize your typical paths to complaining - what  (who) sparks your tendency to gripe. Minimize your exposure to them (eliminating those 'sparks' altogether may not always be realistic or the best thing). Know that your grumbling is a complete waste of energy.


Be thankful. Regularly reflect on all the good in your life (people, opportunities, things). Understand and enjoy how lucky you really are. Be entitled to nothing.


Pause before you begin. Clip a complaint as you feel it coming. Put a smile or thoughtful statement in its path. Blame no one. Blame nothing.


Be accountable. Focus on solving problems rather than having them. Set the example for others and recommit when you slip. Care for yourself and create a positive habit.


Let's lead by example.




If you like the idea, encourage someone else (talk about it, forward this email, tweet or Facebook it). Here's the post...

http://blog.GiveMore.com/complainless


If you want to talk live, my contact information is below.

Love your people...


Sam

Author of Smile & Move and 212

Sparker@GiveMore.com

804-762-4500 ext. 303



PS... Here''re other ComplainLess quotes I love...


"If you have not slept, or if you have slept, or if you have headache, or sciatica, or leprosy, or thunder-stroke, I beseech you by all angels to hold your peace, and not pollute the morning... Love the day."

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–1882)
American writer and activist


"This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; the being a force of Nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy."



George Bernard Shaw (1856–1950)
Irish playwright and critic

2.6.10

咨詢的意義

有人把陳綺貞的 《旅行的意義》改編成這一首關於小顧問的歌,我覺得這個填詞人這是一個可愛的天才。


是的,於是,我離開了。





改編歌:咨詢的意義



原唱:陳綺貞


你做過了許多project
你帶走了許多行李
你用許多經歷仔細填滿自己的resume


你研究了誰的戰略
你剖析了誰的管理
你熟記書本裡每一套methodology


一個人飛過雲端的美麗
一個人欣賞著每座城市的風景
一個人不知停留某個機場某個位子


一個小顧問的回憶




你累積了許多飛行
你擁有金卡的絢麗
你不放棄每一個積攢free nights的機遇


你interview P和VP
你傾聽抱怨和冷語
你串聯著每個回憶畫出最美的ppt


一個人面對客戶的challenge
一個人裝出你欣賞的成熟魅力
一個人拖著疲憊回到陌生的房間裡


一個小顧問的回憶


la……la……la……


你勉強面對客戶的challenge
卻找不回本應屬於你的青春與活力
卻找不回什麼時候為咨詢痴迷
找不回咨詢的意義


勉強描繪你未來擁有的職業路徑
都是你離開的原因
你離開了


就是咨詢的意義



原唱歌曲:《旅行的意義》