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How to complain less...

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complainless: (adj.) 1. to be free of complaints 2. a pleasure to be around


Remember... Your words move others. Your words move you. Let yours send everyone in the right direction. Be the spark.




To be ComplainLess...


Be aware. Recognize your typical paths to complaining - what  (who) sparks your tendency to gripe. Minimize your exposure to them (eliminating those 'sparks' altogether may not always be realistic or the best thing). Know that your grumbling is a complete waste of energy.


Be thankful. Regularly reflect on all the good in your life (people, opportunities, things). Understand and enjoy how lucky you really are. Be entitled to nothing.


Pause before you begin. Clip a complaint as you feel it coming. Put a smile or thoughtful statement in its path. Blame no one. Blame nothing.


Be accountable. Focus on solving problems rather than having them. Set the example for others and recommit when you slip. Care for yourself and create a positive habit.


Let's lead by example.




If you like the idea, encourage someone else (talk about it, forward this email, tweet or Facebook it). Here's the post...

http://blog.GiveMore.com/complainless


If you want to talk live, my contact information is below.

Love your people...


Sam

Author of Smile & Move and 212

Sparker@GiveMore.com

804-762-4500 ext. 303



PS... Here''re other ComplainLess quotes I love...


"If you have not slept, or if you have slept, or if you have headache, or sciatica, or leprosy, or thunder-stroke, I beseech you by all angels to hold your peace, and not pollute the morning... Love the day."

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–1882)
American writer and activist


"This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; the being a force of Nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy."



George Bernard Shaw (1856–1950)
Irish playwright and critic

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